Person lighting candles in front of a decorative mirror with candle reflections, red curtains, and ornate gold frame.

Photo: @katelensphotography

The Inner Union Journey leads you home to the Cathedral of your Soul

Inside of you is a temple that no one can touch.

Mine is a red velvet cathedral with candelabras.

What’s yours?

Self Marriage is a devotional practice that brings us home to ourselves in a way that nothing else can.

Hieros gamos = "the sacred inner marriage"

The ancient alchemists and mystics knew this was the holy grail and that through the fusion of soul work and alchemy, we find it.

The Inner Union Ceremonial Journey is a profound ritual and rite of passage where we anchor into the most important relationship we will ever have in this life…with that human in the mirror.

With that soul in your eyes.

With you.

Self Marriage is a devotional practice that brings us home to ourselves in a way that nothing else can.

This on demand class series is designed to go at your own pace.

The classes are for:

  • anyone getting married (a must watch before you say “I do!”)

  • for all the single folks who need a reminder that this time with yourself is the best time of your life

  • for those who already are married and ready to peel back the energy and projections from your partner
    and re-establish your inner connection

The three classes walk you through ancient mystery
school teachings around inner union
and offer meditations and exercises.

The class series will set you up for a ceremony if you choose it.

The entire series is a ceremony if you let it be.

My Inner Union journey

Listen to these ‘casts for background on my work:

This course has shifted from a festival 90 minute workshop to a one day workshop to a three part class series!

I love how my work evolves and gets deeper with time.

With my Life Celebrancy work, I married a lot of people and it came up for me that not everyone is committed to their Inner Self first. Since we rarely have priests or holy people to counsel a couple before they get married, these classes are meant to help you re-connect to your inner voice, so you can establish the most authentic relationship possible. It starts within.

This is for you if you’re single, preparing for marriage, or married 50 years.

When we move through the ritual of Self Marriage, we engage in self leadership, self validation and self agency.

And through this art, we create an unshakeable inner relationship that ultimately makes EVERY RELATIONSHIP WE HAVE BETTER.

This is my work to reduce divorce rates and to help with the pandemic of family court battles. When people better engage with the part of themselves that needs primary care, it takes back their projections from others and sources from an inner well. When we are committed to our integrity, we simply can no longer engage in coercive practices.


Collage of images from a self marriage ceremonial workshop. The top row shows a woman looking at a mirror surrounded by candles and red drapes; the middle row shows women seated with mirrors and candles behind a red curtain; the bottom row features women sitting in decorative settings with candles and mirrors. The title text on the collage reads "Self Marriage Ceremonial Workshop."
A group of women participating in a gathering inside a large tent surrounded by trees. Some women are dancing, singing, and talking, while others are sitting on the ground or standing. The setting appears to be outdoors during the daytime, with natural light filtering through the tent. There are decorations and a relaxed, joyful atmosphere.